Two easy phrases that will improve your relationship instantly
Personal relationships run the world. But why is it that some people connect so easily with people? What's their secret to success? I always wondered why some people are so great at communicating with people and others are not. I have two easy techniques that will instantly help you.
Why is ''you'' such a powerful word? Because from the moment we were born, we wanted to be the center of the universe. We are asking our self by every action, every word. How does that affect me?
People who wish to control, inspire, be loved by, sell to people they start with the word you.
Start every appropriate sentence with you. It immediately grasp your listener´s attention. For instance if i want to compliment someone about the question she asked. Which sounds better? You have asked a great question, or its a great question.
Create the sensation of intimacy with someone even if you've met just moments before by using the word we. The word ''we'' fosters togetherness. It makes the listener feel connected. If you use we or us, even to strangers, it subconsciously brings us closer to each other. From my own experience if i use we, its a sing of togetherness, team or we are one. Just try once!